07/02/2025 11:40 a.m.

Having Trouble Conceiving

Dr. Niels van de Roemer
Dr. Niels van de Roemer Medical Adviser

What can you do if it doesn’t work?

Infertility is a challenge faced by many couples trying to start a family. While most fertile couples conceive within a year, approximately 15% of couples experience difficulties despite having regular, unprotected intercourse. Fertility challenges can stem from various factors, including medical conditions, lifestyle habits, or simply timing issues. The good news is that with proper guidance, testing, and treatment, the chances of conceiving can significantly improve.

What defines infertility?

Infertility is typically diagnosed when a couple is unable to achieve pregnancy after 12 months of regular, unprotected sexual activity. For women over 35 years of age, this timeframe is reduced to 6 months, due to the natural decline in fertility as age increases. Understanding the fertile window and tracking ovulation cycles is crucial in determining the optimal time for conception.

Why conception may be delayed

There are numerous factors that can affect the ability to conceive, including:

  • Irregular Ovulation: Women who do not ovulate regularly may have fewer chances of conception.
  • Age-Related Decline: Female fertility significantly decreases after the age of 30, with a sharper decline after 35.
  • Male Fertility Issues: Low sperm count, poor sperm motility, or abnormal sperm shape can hinder successful fertilization.
  • Lifestyle Factors: Smoking, excessive alcohol, stress, and obesity negatively impact reproductive health.
  • Medical Conditions: Endometriosis, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), thyroid disorders, or blocked fallopian tubes can interfere with conception.

First steps if you’re having trouble conceiving

If pregnancy has not occurred after 6-12 months of trying, it’s essential to consult a fertility specialist. Early evaluation allows for timely interventions. The initial steps typically include:

  • Tracking Ovulation: Understanding your menstrual cycle and fertile days is vital. Using tools like basal body temperature charts or fertility monitors can help.
  • Medical Evaluation: A doctor may order blood tests to check hormone levels, thyroid function, and ovarian reserve.
  • Cycle Monitoring: This involves ultrasounds and hormonal tests at specific times during your menstrual cycle to assess egg development and ovulation.

What to expect from cycle monitoring

Cycle monitoring is one of the first diagnostic tools in fertility treatment. It usually involves:

  • Day 3–5 of Cycle: Hormonal blood tests, including FSH, LH, and estradiol, to assess ovarian function.
  • Day 10–12 of Cycle: Ultrasound examination to check follicle growth and uterine lining development.
  • 5–8 Days After Ovulation: Blood tests for progesterone to confirm ovulation.

These steps help identify potential irregularities and guide the next steps in treatment.

Hormone stimulation therapy with Clomiphene

For women who do not ovulate regularly, clomiphene citrate is often the first line of treatment. This medication, used since the 1960s, works by stimulating the release of hormones needed for egg development and ovulation. Around 70-80% of women who take clomiphene successfully ovulate, and approximately 10-13% of these cycles result in pregnancy. Proper monitoring and timing are crucial for the effectiveness of this therapy.

Advanced fertility treatments: IVF and ICSI

When natural conception is not possible due to blocked fallopian tubes, severe male infertility, or unexplained infertility, assisted reproductive technologies (ART) such as in-vitro fertilization (IVF) or intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) are recommended.

  • IVF involves fertilizing an egg outside the body and then implanting it into the uterus.
  • ICSI is often used when sperm quality is low, where a single sperm is injected directly into an egg.

Success rates vary but are generally around 20-30% per cycle, with many couples achieving pregnancy after multiple attempts.

The importance of male fertility testing

Infertility is not solely a female issue. In 40% of cases, male factors are either the sole or a contributing cause. A spermiogram, or semen analysis, is conducted to evaluate sperm count, motility, and morphology. Key parameters for healthy sperm include:

  • Count: At least 15 million sperm per milliliter of semen.
  • Motility: At least 32% of sperm should have good movement.
  • Morphology: At least 4% should have normal shape.

Lifestyle improvements, such as maintaining a healthy weight, quitting smoking, and avoiding excessive alcohol or drug use, can significantly improve sperm quality.

How can you test your fertility at home?

It is important to emphasize that there is no single “fertility test” that can provide all the answers. Instead, there are various tests for both men and women that deliver valuable insights into reproductive health. The goal of these tests is not to determine an exact probability of conceiving but rather to identify potential factors that could negatively impact fertility. Once identified, these factors can often be addressed or improved to enhance your chances of pregnancy. A fertility test is not a magic solution to get pregnant immediately; rather, it is a tool for gaining information that can help you plan further steps or medical interventions.

  1. LH Ovulation tests

The principle behind LH (luteinizing hormone) ovulation tests is simple and effective. Using test sticks or strips along with a control line, these tests measure how much LH hormone is present in your urine. LH is a key hormone in controlling your menstrual cycle. It triggers ovulation, supports the development of the corpus luteum, which in turn produces progesterone—a hormone essential for preparing the uterus for pregnancy.

  1. Progesterone tests

Progesterone tests can be performed at home using saliva samples, or at a doctor’s office with a blood test. However, these tests are often criticized because a single test alone may not provide a complete picture of your fertility. Progesterone levels are best measured around 7 days after ovulation, as this hormone peaks during the luteal phase. Low progesterone levels can indicate irregular ovulation or other hormonal imbalances that could affect conception.

  1. AMH Test (Anti-Müllerian Hormone Test)

The AMH test is another reliable indicator of a woman’s fertility potential. For example, the Berlin-based company Fertilly offers an at-home AMH fertility test that accurately measures anti-Müllerian hormone levels. AMH is produced in the ovarian follicles and is closely linked to the number of eggs (oocyte reserve) a woman has.

When AMH levels are measured in the blood, they can provide a general idea of how many eggs remain. However, AMH levels do not reflect egg quality, only quantity.

AMH Blood test values

The results of an AMH test are divided into categories:

  • Normal Range: For fertile women aged 18 to 30, normal AMH values range between 1 and 5 nanograms per milliliter (ng/mL) of blood. A normal AMH level does not guarantee fertility but provides insight into egg reserve.

  • High AMH Levels: A value above 5 ng/mL indicates a higher egg count than expected for your age. This can also be a sign of Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), a condition affecting 5–10% of women worldwide. However, not every woman with PCOS has a high AMH level.

  • Low AMH Levels: A value below 1 ng/mL suggests a reduced number of eggs, which may indicate a limited ovarian reserve. This does not necessarily mean infertility, but it could point to a shorter reproductive window. Women with low AMH levels can still conceive naturally or with medical support.

How Does AMH Change with Age?

AMH levels naturally decline with age. Starting around 30 years old, the concentration of AMH gradually drops because the ovarian reserve decreases over time.

  • At birth, a girl has about 1–2 million eggs.
  • By the time of her first menstrual cycle, this number drops to 300,000–400,000.
  • During each menstrual cycle, approximately 800 eggs start developing, but usually only one egg is released for potential fertilization.

This natural decline explains why fertility becomes more challenging as women age. An AMH test can help determine whether fertility preservation options, such as egg freezing (social freezing), might be worth considering.

Lifestyle changes to boost fertility

Optimizing your health can naturally improve your chances of conception. We recommend:

  • Maintaining a Healthy Weight: Both underweight and overweight conditions can disrupt hormone levels.
  • Reducing Stress: Chronic stress can interfere with ovulation and sperm production.
  • Avoiding Harmful Substances: Quit smoking, limit alcohol, and avoid recreational drugs.
  • Balanced Nutrition: A diet rich in antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals supports reproductive health.
  • Regular Exercise: Moderate activity promotes hormonal balance, but excessive exercise can be counterproductive.

FAQs

How Can a Cycle Monitor Support Me in Trying to Conceive?

Devices like Lady-Comp and Daysy help you identify your fertile days, track ovulation, and analyze cycle patterns. By understanding your body better, you can pinpoint the best time for conception and provide valuable information to your doctor during fertility consultations.

Which Fertility Tests Can I Do at Home?

Common at-home fertility tests include:

  • Ovulation tests (LH tests): Detect the surge of luteinizing hormone before ovulation.
  • Progesterone tests: Provide information about hormone levels after ovulation.
  • AMH tests: Assess ovarian reserve by measuring anti-Müllerian hormone levels.

While these tests give useful indications, they cannot replace a professional medical diagnosis.

What Are the Most Common Causes of Infertility?

Infertility can affect both men and women equally. For women, common causes include irregular ovulation, age-related fertility decline, PCOS, endometriosis, or blocked fallopian tubes. For men, low sperm count, reduced sperm motility, or abnormal sperm shape are frequent factors. Lifestyle habits such as poor nutrition, obesity, excessive alcohol, or stress can also play a significant role. Approximately 40% of infertility cases are linked to male factors, 40% to female factors, and 20% are a combination or unexplained.

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